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First excerpt...
Courage is born out of
the greatest of fears.
Courage is a
valiant light, a miracle
of your nature that can
be gleaned out
of the greatest of
disasters and tragedies.
Courage is also your
birthright, part of
you that is always
present within, always
positively charged, no
matter how
intimidating are the
circumstances around
you.
To encourage
yourself toward calling
up and bringing out all
the courage
you hold is nothing less
than divine. Pulling it
from inside your soul in
the midst
of darkness requires
more than just your
humanity. It requires a
going beyond,
which may feel like it
takes all the strength
you can summon. But it
rewards you
with renewed life, and
gives you the even more
miraculous power to
encourage
others. In times of
utter powerlessness,
desperation and sense of
loss, many of us
who have experienced
tragedies and disasters
look up with bended
knees towards
a higher source. We
supplicate a greater
power to give us back
the anchorage of
peace and serenity
within our hearts and
souls. We look up to a
force that could
save us. And when we
find that force, we find
that it exists right
inside our pained,
hopeful selves, while it
is also somehow wrapped
around us waiting in the
air for
the inner and the outer
to join into a single
force.
Courage is
irrepressible.
Courage
does not mean that fear
is non-existent for you.
An element of fear
may exist at the base of
our courage, stubbornly
and persistently.
However, your
courage is
irrepressible, and there
are ways that the fear
can be subdued. To have
courage you may
disregard fear, or
accept it with a resolve
to stand apart
from it,
or even ignore it
during certain moments
of your life.
There are sterling souls
who,
somehow, not only
survive disasters and
tragedies; they
ultimately go beyond,
and use their life
experiences to give
light, strength and hope
to others. These
people are able to
remain complete in spite
of their fears, and able
to inspire those
who are in danger of
being trapped by
discouragement. This
book is about people
who discovered their
inner valor; those who
uplifted and continue to
uplift others
with their light
from within.
My
intention is not only to
celebrate those people,
but also to elevate them
to you as examples of
the capacity and renewal
that you also possess.
My hope is
that you go beyond
being impressed by these
individuals, whom I like
to call
"phoenix miracle
people", and
come to a place of being
inspired by them. My
hope is that you find
your own capacity for
valor, and truly
stand as one of the
world's most
vital resources, one of
the phoenix miracle
people.
Two aspects of
my life have
given me deep
involvement with this
subject
matter, the
professional and the
personal.
The
professional involves my
being a physician
specializing in
psychiatry
who serves both children
and adults.
Through that role, I
have tried to invoke
healing both in my home
community and at
times of great need, in
other places
- including the
troublesome aftermath of
Hurricane Katrina, the
great Southeast
Asian tsunami,
and the explosion of
Mount Pinatubo in the
Philippines - as
well
as some of humanity's
"slow-motion disasters,"
such as the AIDS
epidemic in
Africa. Through this
aspect of my life, I
have met an astounding
number of
heroic people, not just
among the care workers
but especially among
those who
were hardest hit by the
circumstance.
My second
route to experience with
the all-important search
for personal
courage is from
devastation within my
own family,
involving one of my
treasured
children and tragic
events which
still feel to me almost
too deep
for words. It is a
story I hope to tell
with dignity and respect,
and with a
sense of proportion,
knowing first hand
that tragedy forms a
part of every
single human life. It
is a story which
will undoubtedly strike
deep chords
within you, but it will
also shine a light on
phoenix miracle people
who
showed themselves to be
some of the most
exceptional, the most
lion-hearted
I have ever known.
These
reflections about the
noble ability of people
to go beyond their
most tragic
experiences are meant to
encourage, to reveal the
grace and the
understanding that
courage is always within
us. And to
instruct that sometimes,
even if it seems certain
that we are beyond
our limits and
overwhelmed by
our fears, we can
find life-saving,
life-renewing
rays of courage - not
only for
ourselves, but for
others too. To encourage
others is a miracle of
the giving
spirit. To encourage
others is to give of our
selves, and more,
helping them
get past fears that
block them from truly
living.
You cannot
give anyone courage, no
matter how much you may
want to,
if you do not muster
up valor from within
first. This book comes
to you with a
heartfelt prayer
that it will
strengthen the core of
courage within you,
giving you
even greater
awareness of , and
certain access to, your
own valiant light.
Second Excerpt
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